Prayer and Conflict Part 1 (Acts 16:16-18)
16 Now it happened, as we went to prayer, that a certain slave girl possessed with a spirit of divination met us, who brought her masters much profit by fortune-telling. 17 This girl followed Paul and us, and cried out, saying, “These men are the servants of the Most High God, who proclaim to us the way of salvation.” 18 And this she did for many days.
We pick up our story with Paul and his company going to join new converts (Acts 16:14-15) in something non-negotiable — prayer. Among the things that did not change for Jesus followers after (a) the birth of the church on Pentecost or (b) the decision to come to Christ, was the practice of going to prayer (Acts 3:1; 16:3). Before they met Paul and his company, Lydia (Acts 16:13) and Cornelius (Acts 10:1-3; 30-31) were regularly retreating to call on God. After making a decision to trust Christ (Acts 16:14-15) they are found continuing in the practice with support from an apostle and his missionary band.
We are often found saying that we would like to see more of the spectacular work of the Spirit mentioned in the gospels and Acts in our own day. “Where is this work of Jesus in our church and our community?” But we cannot overlook the fact that in the ministry of Jesus (Luke 5:16), His apostles (Acts 1:14; 3:1), and people who experienced exceptional grace (Cornelius – Acts 10:1-3; 30-31; Lydia – Acts 16:13) that prayer is conspicuously present.
For those of us who would earnestly desire to see God move now like He did then the counsel is clear:
To see the hand of God move in our lives in ways similar to what we see in the Scriptures importunate prayer, individual and corporate, must be made primary and continuous.
We can see this in the example, exhortation, and explanations of Jesus.
- The Example of Jesus (Luke 5:16; Matt. 14:23; Mark 1:35; Luke 6:12; 9:18; 11:1) — So He Himself often withdrew into the wilderness and prayed. (Luke 5:16)
- The Exhortation of Jesus (Luke 11:5-11; Luke 18:1) — Then He spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not lose heart… (Luke 18:1)
- The Explanation of Jesus for Dealing with Exceptional Problems (Matthew 17:21; Mark 9:29) — However, this kind does not go out except by prayer [and fasting]α. (Mark 9:29) Jesus made it clear that the power of the one he sends is derivative and borrowed; it is like the fading glory of Moses. The ability to cast out a demon was not based on an inherent authority of the exorcist but on the name and authority of Jesus Himself. In prayer the one asking acknowledges their inability to solve the problem on their own and their great need for help. Apart from this humbling of self and asking for help it will not be possible to command unclean spirits to come out of their victim.
- The Apostolic Admonitions (Acts 16:16; Acts 1:14; 3:1; 1 Thessalonians 5:17; Ephesians 6:18; Colossians 4:2; Romans 12:12) — The apostles have a special ministry of clarifying the commands of Jesus, unpacking His precepts, exemplifying His edicts. Through them we learn that the Lord, as He Himself demonstrated, would have us continuous and fervent in praying.
We will not see God work like He did until we are willing to make supplication like the Son, to appeal to for help like His apostles did, and charge the throne of grace like the early church. But how, you ask, do we do that? The likelihood of getting into the regular practice goes up with better planning. Here are three things needed if we are going to become people of prayer:
- An Established Time (Daniel 6:10) — Our time for prayer should be scheduled. Putting it on the calendar is evidence that we are being intentional. A goal without a date is a dream. Including others in the plan helps us become accountable. For those in leadership, delegating the role of leading prayer time helps to ensure that it is not vulnerable to our personal vicissitudes.
- A Particular Place (Luke 21:38; 22:39-40) — Jesus regularly retreated to pray. When in Jerusalem He had a custom of going to the Mount of Olives; He would, at times, be there all night in prayer. Why Olivet? It was removed from the hustle and bustle of Jerusalem but near enough to be a practical retreat from day-to-day teaching in the temple. The distance between temple and the Mount of Olives was a Sabbath’s journey (Acts 1:12). How far is that? It would be 2,000 cubits or 0.57 miles.
- A Clear Purpose — Prayer, if it is not focused on what matters to God, can become a thing of (1) pride and (2) a dead ritual. Our prayers should have as their goal getting from God what we need to do His will; this is good praying (Luke 10:2; Mark 14:38; Luke 22:42; Matthew 6:10).
Questions for Discussion
- What Paul’s commitment to prayer shape the way you personally approach spiritual conflict? Paul and his companions were on their way to prayer when this confrontation began (Acts 16:16). This post highlights that prayer wasn’t incidental to their mission — it was non-negotiable and continuous. Reflection: When challenges or spiritual opposition arise in your life, do you go to prayer first or to other solutions? What would it look like to make prayer the default response to every struggle?
- What does this passage teach about discerning between true spiritual work and false testimonies? Reflection: Are there influences in your life (voices, opinions, habits) that sound spiritual but don’t align with the heart of Christ or God’s ways of prayer and obedience? How can prayer help you discern truth from distraction?
- In what ways does prayer prepare you for the conflicts you face in everyday life? Reflection: Are there influences in your life (voices, opinions, habits) that sound spiritual but don’t align with the heart of Christ or God’s ways of prayer and obedience? How can prayer help you discern truth from distraction?






