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Possible path from Capernaum to Bethany.

Figure 1 – Possible route of Jesus from Capernaum

Luke 10:38–42 (NKJV)

38 Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.” 41 And Jesus answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. 42 But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.”

The En Route Rabbi (Luke 10:38) – Jesus is on His way to Jerusalem; it is time for Him to be received up (Mark 16:19; Acts 1:2; Luke 9:51). The Son of Man is determined to be where the Father would have Him to be doing what the Father would have Him to do. In this case, the Father would have His only begotten Son to be in Jerusalem. Eventually He must be in the Holy City for the Passover as the Lamb (Matthew 10:28; Mark 10:45; John 1:29).

But there is some time between this record of Jesus’ travels with His disciples and the Passover. As they went to Jerusalem, Jesus entered a certain village  (Luke 10:38). Laying the gospels alongside one another, we can see that the village mentioned by Luke was Bethany (John 11:1). The figure at the right shows a possible route from where Jesus was in Capernaum to Bethany.

In this certain village there is a family that is dear to Jesus – two sisters and their brother (John 11:5). The oldest sibling in the Bethany household is most likely Martha. How did I get that? I base this supposition on her apparent role as head of the household. In first-century Jewish and Greco-Roman culture, hospitality was ordinarily administered by the household’s senior authority. The eldest unmarried woman or the person bearing primary domestic responsibility (Keener, 1993). The act of formally welcoming a guest — particularly a traveling rabbi — normally fell to the individual who managed or governed the household. Luke’s description of Martha as the one who welcomed Jesus into her house suggests that she is the household’s senior figure. She is also possibly the owner of the house.

An Israelite Indeed (Luke 10:39; Deuteronomy 18:15, 19) – The account from Luke introduces the sister of Martha after the welcome; her name is Mary. She is presented to the reader doing two things: (1) sat as Jesus’ feet and (2) heard his word (Luke 10:39). Luke wants us to see her alignment with the expectations of God. Luke says, “Look, at her reader, and see that Mary is enacting obedience by taking a subordinate and teachable posture.” Why do I think that is what Luke is saying? Consider the words of Moses in his blessing on the children of Israel before his death (Deuteronomy 33:3):

Yes, He loves the people;
All His saints are in Your hand;
They sit down at Your feet;
Everyone receives Your words.

Moses said there are two things that an Israelite can do to indicate submission to Yahweh. Mary is doing both. That is, Mary is doing both things that Moses described as expressions of covenant loyalty for an Israelite: (1) sitting down at the feet of God (Jesus) and (2) receiving His words. (And there are other places where being at the feet indicates discipleship, submission, and readiness to obey. See Judges 4:10; 2 Kings 4:27). Further, if we are going to truly appreciate Mary, we must give special attention to the fact that she is hearing Jesus words. Hearing, for the Jew means more than the passive activity of allowing oneself to hear spoken words. It combines intentional listening and willful obedience (Deuteronomy 6:4). At this point Luke 10:39 becomes an unavoidable and unmistakable declaration of Mary’s decision to receive Jesus as the promised Prophet. How did I get that? Moses told that people

15 “The Lord your God will raise up for you a Prophet like me from your midst, from your brethren. Him you shall hear,… 18 I  [Yahweh] will raise up for them a Prophet like you from among their brethren, and will put My words in His mouth, and He shall speak to them all that I command Him. (Deuteronomy 18:15, 18)

She is seated in surrender and listening intently to the words of the rabbi from Nazareth. Mary is telling Jesus and anyone who will look at her actions in the light of God’s covenant with His people, “I see the Prophet that Moses mentioned. And I am hearing him.” Mary is an Israelite indeed.

Sidelined by Service (Luke 10:40) – The activities of Martha, the woman who welcomed Jesus into her home, are brought back into focus. While Mary is sitting at Jesus’s feet hearing his word, the other sister is distracted with much serving. Distracted? That is the word that Luke uses to describe Martha. The underlying verb (περισπάω) indicates that her attention has been drawn, pulled, or dragged away from one thing to another thing. That is, Martha’s has been drawn, pulled, or dragged away from one thing (Jesus words) to another thing (serving Jesus).  It is worth noting that the word translated serving (διακονία) is normally translated ministry (Ephesians 4:12; Acts 6:4). Martha is drawn away by work for Jesus from the words of Jesus.

Picture the scene with me. Martha is going back and forth from the kitchen to the place where Jesus is teaching. She is bringing food items and drinks to the Master and His disciples. Meanwhile, Mary is absorbed in the teaching of Jesus. Every time Martha, in the midst of her ministry, passes by her sister with a tray of food she becomes more irritated. In quiet words she says as she goes back and forth, “Oh no, don’t get it up, Mary!” And later, “Excuse me, Mary! Didn’t mean to come between you and this message with my menial work of ministering alone to the Master and His disciples.” Finally, it becomes too much and she interrupts the Teacher’s teaching with her tirade:

Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.

Martha reminds me of so many people caught up in their self-imposed ministry that find fault with everyone not doing what they are doing. The Holy Spirit can rest a little easier when these people are around; they will eagerly assist in convicting the world of the sin of not measuring up to their standard of righteousness and their requirements for service. (O reader, calm down. This is sarcasm and not heresy.)

Answered Prayer (Luke 10:41) – Jesus answers. And although it looks like just a response to her question and suggestion. It should be seen as an answer to prayer. After all, He is God (John 1:1-3; Hebrews 1:8-10). Saying her name twice is an indicator that there is great emotion associated with the address (Genesis 22:11; 1 Samuel 3:10; 2 Samuel 18:33; Luke 22:31; Matthew 7:21-23; Matthew 23:37; Acts 9:4). This way of speaking to someone is called the double vocative and it means that the speaker is talking with great concern, distress, urgency, or tenderness. Although she accuses him of not caring, Jesus answers her prayer out of His great concern.

Martha is worried and troubled about many things. In this case, her worry and troubles are ministry. Ministry matters. But it should not have been a worry to her. She is not doing it right.

Gentle Correction and Warning (Luke 10:42) – The one thing needed is to hear Him (Deuteronomy 18:15, 19). This is the commandment of God through His servant Moses and reiterated earlier in the transfiguration (Luke 9:33-35).

Moment Distraction Divine Correction
Luke 10:38-42 Martha’s service “Mary has chosen the good part”
Luke 9:33-35 Peter’s ministry plan “Hear Him!”

Jesus tells the woman absorbed in busyness that this is not the Father’s business. Mary has chosen the one thing that is needed – hearing His words. And Mary’s choice is being protected by the Lord Himself; it will not be taken away from her. Don’t try to come between me and Mary. Serving Jesus cannot come before being served by Jesus (John 15:1-5). We are not sent (Mark 3:14) until we have been with Him (Acts 1:8; Acts 4:13).

Action Items for Us

Take time to sit with Jesus today. How? There is a reading plan on this site; that is a good place to start. Prayerfully consider His words and what they mean for your life. Let ministry ideas and initiatives be shaped by time spent listening; hear Him (Luke 9:33-25; Deuteronomy 18:15).

Questions for Consideration

  1. Where am I? Would my position best be described as sitting at the feet of the Teacher receiving His word or busy around the Teacher with my many worries?
  2. What worry needs to wait until after I have spent time with Jesus? Properly seen those worries are weeds that would choke out the word, cares that cut me off from the best Christ has to offer, and second-rate pleasures that pull me away from the real joy of just being with Jesus (Matthew 13:22; Mark 4:18-19; Luke 8:14).

References

Keener, C. S. (1993). The IVP Bible background commentary: New Testament. InterVarsity Press.

Evaluating Angelic Apperances

Yuletide art often displays the angel of this passage in the air above the shepherds. However, the stood before them of Luke 2:9 does not indicate that the heavenly messenger had an elevation greater than that of the shepherds. Absent from the text is any mention of wings, hovering (See 1 Chronicles 21:15-16), or clouds. I do not believe that the author’s command of Greek and attention to detail leave this open to interpretation. When Luke has meant stood over he has clearly conveyed that idea. E.g., later in the same work (4:39) Luke uses the same verb and a preposition to communicate that the Lord stood over Peter’s sick mother-in-law. In the material that concludes Luke’s gospel more angels appear (24:4); the same verb that was translated stood before them, now in the plural, is used in the same way. These angels, appearing to activate immediate obedience in the disciples, are on the ground with the men to whom they are speaking.

In general when angels appear for judgement they do not make themselves available for conversation; they are not present to communicate but to condemn. In passages where angels appear in the air they are not merely aloft – they are agents of judgement (1 Chronicles 21:16) or positioned against the enemies of God (Revelation 7:1-2; 8:5,13, 14:1-19). Notable exceptions are found in the passage where an angel of God calls to Hagar out of heaven and later to Abraham (Genesis 21:17; 22:11). In these exceptions it does not say that the angel appeared but called out. But you will say, “What about Balaam’s donkey?” (Numbers 22:22-33) And to this I will say that the Angel does not appear to Balaam. It was the donkey that saw the angel standing against the wayward prophet.

When heaven’s ministering spirits show up on the ground (Daniel 8:15-17) or in a dream they are present to help men (Genesis 31:11; 32:1; Exodus 3:2; Judges 13:3; Matthew 1:20; 2:13; 2:19; 28:5; Luke 1:11-13; 1:28-30; 2:9; John 20:12; Acts 5:19; 7:30, 35; 10:3; 11:13; 12:7; 27:23). Since this note was first penned I have given more thought to the subject. Furthering the argument that an angel standing with or before men is present to help, are the prior appearances of Gabriel in Luke’s gospel. There are two instances that should be considered. First, there is the appearance of Gabriel to Zacharias.

11 Then an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing on the right side of the altar of incense. 12 And when Zacharias saw him, he was troubled, and fear fell upon him. 13 But the angel said to him, “Do not be afraid, Zacharias, for your prayer is heard; and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you shall call his name John. (Luke 1:11-13)

The angel appears for a meeting with a particular person: appeared to [Zacharias]. And the participial phrase describing how he appears says that he was standing on the right side of the altar of incense. The angel has made himself known to Zacharias through a visible appearance and he is standing on the ground in the Holy of Holies. They are literally on common ground.

Second, there is the appearance to Mary. That is, there is another appearance of the same angel to a person; Gabriel appears to Mary six months after the appearance to Zacharias. This same angel is said to come in (Luke 1:28) and then later to depart from her (Luke 1:38). Nothing is said about whether or not he was standing on the ground. However, unless the poor virgin girl in Nazareth lives in a place with huge vaulted ceilings, the angel is near or on the ground. We will not argue from silence (argumentum ex silentio), since the passage does not explicitly say that the heavenly messenger had his feet on the earth. But it is not unreasonable to think that he did.

Finally, at no point did the angels that appear in the advent story try to get attention for themselves. They did not encourage future communication with themselves, ask for worship, or indicate that they would be an ongoing source of enlightenment. The angels of God do not distract His people from Himself; they appear to promote obedience and devotion to God alone. Angels that seek or accept devotion are demonic (Isaiah 14:12-17; Matthew 4:8-11)!

Does it matter? Is there any relevance in this rumination to our day-to-day efforts to live effectively in the service of Jesus? The significance may be in helping me to interpret the meaning of visits from angels. Because, to be sure, they are continuing to visit us (Acts 12:7; Hebrews 13:2). (No, I am not preoccupied with the appearance of angels or trying to explain the community and operations of beings not of this world. I am merely working with Scripture to uncover guidelines for evaluating visits by angels.) Recently, there have been people claiming that orbs of light in the sky might be angels. They have even posted videos of communication with these things; in one case the light seems to respond. (Note: the person presenting the material is in the active practice of witchcraft and other activities expressly prohibited by God.) Does it matter? Consider the following as assessment guidelines:

Angel Appearance Assessment Guidelines

  1. Angel Appearance Assessment Guideline 1 – If the angel is in the air above me, based on the Scriptures, this is an indicator that they are not visiting to communicate and are not promoting my personal welfare.
  2. Angel Appearance Assessment Guideline 2 – If the angel appears on the ground and talks to me, they are obviously wanting to communicate and, based on the Scriptures, they may be here to help.
  3. Angel Appearance Assessment Guideline 3 – The angel must not seek attention for itself, try to get me to stay in communication with itself, or promote spiritual ideas that indicate a better life that is not centered on Christ. Angels of God do not self promote or distract from the gospel.

Secure Your Own Oxygen Mask First

Life is a journey. For a leader, it is a double journey as we travel with others. For leaders of leaders, frequent flier miles can quickly add up. For those leaders who are “worried and troubled about many things,” frequent flier miles may never be cashed in. A regular pre-flight announcement states, “If oxygen masks are necessary, they will drop from a compartment above. If you are traveling with a child or someone needing assistance, put your mask on first.” Why? Because you can’t help someone when you are struggling yourself. Right? Not so fast; we Christian leaders do it all the time.

As leaders, we often forget to grab some oxygen first before we take care of our charges. Someone is always in need, and good leaders always care. The better a leader you are, the more people will seek you out. You didn’t become a good leader by only looking out for yourself. Being a leader is a call, and it is confirmed by people looking for you. Compass needs leaders who go beyond a title or seeking recognition. And Compass is committed to making sure our leaders continue to look more and more like Jesus.

Once, when Jesus was leading a life group in Martha and Mary’s house, the principle of “put your oxygen on first” was on full display. Martha wanted Mary to get up and help her take care of the people hearing Jesus. Jesus answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her” (Luke 10:41-42).

To care for others is our call, but that must be balanced with an insatiable thirst for being with Jesus. We can’t give what we don’t have. I’m not saying ignore people; I’m saying make sure you are serving others out of a deep breath of the Spirit of Jesus. It makes shepherding an adventure and keeps the burn-out far away. Think adventure!

I’m not big on guilt as a motivation, so don’t take this as an admonition to get your priorities right. What I am saying is that the journey you invite your disciples on will be more life-giving when we maintain our spiritual discipline of personal devotional time. It is the kind of journey that will keep us from burning out.

Tools for enhancing our devotional time:

 Refresh and Recalibrate: https://bit.ly/4cP7WNc

 The Spiritual Disciple of Resetting: https://spirituallyhungry.com/the-spiritual-discipline-of-resetting/

For you leaders, it is a reminder, not an invitation. “Continue to choose the good part.”

Dr. Alex Mandes